But being large and in charge doesn’t mean that you’re doomed to a life of being forever alone; in fact, you may find that you have far more options for finding love, sex and happiness than you’d ever believe possible. There are plenty of notable examples out there if you look around. Seth Rogan is no Abercrombie and Fitch model but he’s also happily married.Large dudes will frequently lament that their size automatically disqualifies them from dating – they believe that there is simply no way a woman could possibly like somebody who’s body isn’t rippled and shiny like a buttered ear of corn. Kevin Smith, for all of his fashion sins that I will get into in a second, is happily married with a lovely wife and daughter. It’s easy to forget this when the TV and magazines are showing you nothing but image after image of cut, veiny men with swimmers builds with women draped all over them like fur stoles, but women actually like a far wider range of body types than we’d think.Honestly though, the best thing you can do here is just to learn to accept your body as it is. But I’ll let you in on a little secret: guys love confidence.If you love what you look like and you own your body, no matter what size it is, dudes will see that and it will effect how they see you.I also changed the wording slightly just in case OKCupid cottoned on and took them down.The profile names had to be slightly different because the site won’t allow two the same.I put it to you this way: Are Women Attracted to Fat Men? Saturday, June 21, 2008, PM Only very recently have I started viewing fit & toned men as more attractive than fat men. However, I've been on a "lifestyle change" for about five years now and recently when I find myself attracted to a guy's personality, then I notice he's fat-in-the-belly, I try to shut the attraction off.
It’s something many single people wonder, myself included.Over the course of five days, 'fat' Yvette (pictured left) received 18 messages, 74 likes and 81 visits.I’ve got something to ask about weight and stuff like that. I know tons of girls want a skinny body, but this is just too much. I know plenty of ladies – as do you – who would kill for your body, and plenty of ladies like you who would do the same for a fuller figure.I should point out that I’m an 18 at this point and happy to use the word fat because I find ‘plus size’ patronising and I mentally think of it as phat instead. I set up these profiles on free online dating site OKCupid.As you can see, both are identical except for the photos and the fact one has ‘overweight’ as body type and the other has ‘thin’.Nutrition and exercise are the only truly healthy methods of maintaining proper weight.